This past Friday, I spent the night in Toledo celebrating my friend Jai-Lin’s birthday. For some background, I worked at a golf course for many years and, through that job, met some of my closest friends. Jai, Kayla, Lamai, Abby and I all worked together, and while we always have a blast during the summer when the golf season is in full swing, we don’t get to see each other much during the school year. That’s mostly because I don’t go to school in Toledo.
Despite the distance, one tradition we’ve kept alive is celebrating each other’s birthdays. No matter how busy things get, we make sure to show up for those moments. Jai’s birthday fell on Thursday this year, but the official celebration took place Friday night. The birthday girl also requested a "cowgirl/country" theme, so of course we delivered.
To mark
the occasion, Jai rented a pedal bar downtown. For the record, we are all over
21. The group was bigger than usual because she invited several of her other
friends, which is always a fun dynamic. I enjoy meeting friends of friends,
especially when we find unexpected connections. At one point I struck up a
conversation with one of Jai’s friends, Klava, and learned she actually grew up
in Ada. Even more surprising, her father is one of the philosophy professors at
Ohio Northern. That discovery made me laugh because whenever I mention Ada back
home, most people have never even heard of it, let alone lived there. It really
was a small-world moment.
Once
everyone had gathered, we walked to the designated pickup spot where our
driver, Allison, greeted us. She immediately set the tone for the night.
Allison kept the energy high and the atmosphere lively, which made the
experience even better.
rolled into one.
The night
ended up being long, but in the best possible way. Between catching up with old
friends, meeting new ones and laughing nonstop, it was a celebration that
perfectly captured why these friendships mean so much to me. No matter how much
time passes between visits, we always pick up right where we left off, and this
birthday was no exception.
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